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What are these 4 essential tools and in which way do these apply to your love relationship, affair or romance with that special someone you are in love with at present?
Every builder (whether it is a relationship, a house, a car or whatever) needs 3 things essentially and these are-
1. a well laid out blueprint
2. a detailed schedule of planned activities to follow
3. tools to get the job done
Now, the above mentioned without a fourth is utterly useless because without this, both of you will never get to realize your dreams and achieve your hearts' purposes.
What is this fourth requirement?
4. It is A-C-T-I-O-N, pure and simple.
Both of you need to get involved as equal partners who have been saddled with the responsibility of moving your relationship forward and getting it to a safe, stable, enjoyable, secured and rewarding destination.
This is the only means by which you can attain fulfillment.
THE BIG how to build a relationship QUESTION?
Do you have a blueprint for your relationship? It is important that both of you as lovers, mates, partners, dates or couples get to sit down together, discuss in detail and chart the course your relationship is to follow over the next few weeks, months and even many years to come.
DO YOU REALIZE?
When you take a look at your lover (the chosen one out of several options available and presented to be), you will be surprised to discover that both of you complement one another.
You have equal interests to some degree and are able to get along with each other because you know how to relate or communicate together.
However, you should be quick to note that where you are deficient or lacking, your chosen lover or spouse is strong and adequate;
What this informs is that you are unique.
WHO IS RESPONSIBLE FOR WHAT?
Do not attempt to share tasks and responsibilities in your relationship equally. What really counts is to take responsibility and contribute your own quota by sharing what needs to be done to establish and ground your relationship on a firm footing/foundation.
Become relevant and contribute in a positive, meaningful and appropriate way that would be appreciated by your lover or partner.
IS THERE AN ULTIMATE CODE?
Without the all essential key of EFFECTIVE COMMUNICATION between lovers, your relationship is already dead without you realizing it yet.
A breakdown in this area leaves room for any other and every other 'Relationship Killers' to hold sway. What remains is only the passage of time before the bubble bursts.
HOW PREPARED ARE YOU in your relationship to make it work and worthwhile?
Do you possess the necessary tools to making your relationship work today? How prepared and ready are you to see to the well-being of the love you share with your special someone really?
What things would you do (or not do) to see that your love relationship stands the test of time? Or would you prefer it ends on the roll call for failed relationships that ended in breakup, separation or divorce?
WHEN ARE YOU TO BUILD OR TAKE STOCK?
The time to build your relationship is now and the period to take stock of your progress is this instant.
Together with your partner or simply on your own, you need to track your pace and evaluate how well both of you have fared in your relationship so far.
Where your performance, contributions and application of yourself have been okay, drive your stakes into the ground FIRM.
Where you are at a loss, you need to seek a redress and make adjustments wherever possible. You need to realize that your relationship with your lover/spouse has a lot to contribute to your life in the following areas-
1. Your life.
2. Your career.
3. Your life's ambitions and aspirations.
4. The people who matter the most to you.
5. The community where you live.
6. The people you meet or interact with daily.
7. The lifetime legacy you want to pass to others.
WHAT IS YOUR ROLE?
To this end, you will do well to being the best you can be by adding value to your love relationship and the life of your lover, spouse, boyfriend, girlfriend or partner.
This way, you will attain fulfillment, joy, wealth, inner peace and have the strength and courage to lead and live your life in a way you will forever be proud of.
This is one secret tip many fail to realize and work at in their relationships. Don't be among this number or group.
Make all the difference you can and watch as your relationship and lover takes on a new lease of life as a whole.
HOW LONG SHOULD YOUR RELATIONSHIP LAST?
Your relationship is meant to be fun-filled and enjoyed (rather than endured) every moment and for as long as it would last... which in reality should be FOREVER.
Don't settle for less.
You can successfully turn your relationship around for good and start to enjoy the fun and thrills having an affair holds.
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