Every boy or girl, guy or lady, man or woman who has ever been in a relationship or love affair or those aspiring to step into one someday soon desires to build a healthy, loving, romantic, enjoyable and resourceful relationship but many fall short of the basic ingredients or requirements to realizing their dream or goal.
The difference between a healthy relationship and a crisis ridden relationship is simply a matter of;
1. The choices both of you make,
2. The information both of you (individually or jointly) are exposed to, access or possess, and
3. Action on your part by getting involved in committed work together.
A healthy relationship is easy to create, nurture and maintain when you know what things to do and not get to do, and it all begins with the very few steps you started with.
You must understand a few basic facts about getting involved in a love affair or relationship if you are to grow in love, deepen your affection for one another, and also get to witness your life's goals, dreams and aspirations come to fulfillment individually and together as one.
1. WHAT IS A LOVE RELATIONSHIP?
Understand what a love relationship or what being in an affair with the opposite sex means, represents or involves. As a matter of concern, if you are already in a love affair or relationship, then you must endeavor to put this small assignment into consideration because it adds up to the health and overall success in your relationship.
2. WHAT ARE YOUR EXPECTATIONS, DREAMS AND GOALS?
Get to meet each other please. Both of you should also endeavor to share and communicate your personal dreams and ambitions with one another in addition to your individual expectations for getting involved in a love affair or relationship with each other. Each others' interest must be represented as best as possible.
3. WHO IS RESPONSIBLE TO MAKE YOUR RELATIONSHIP WORK?
The two of you must work and walk together in agreement and cooperatively to grow, groom, nurture and maintain your relationship. Teamwork is the key point here and it is here and now that your uniqueness must be made to bear on your love affair. Build your relationship together and work as equal partners.
4. HOW DO YOU DEAL WITH YOUR EMOTIONS OR ANY CRISIS?
You must both learn how to and also master your emotions greatly. In addition, become knowledgeable in the art of conflict resolution in a love relationship and put into action information acquired when occasion or situation demands.
5. WHEN ARE YOU TO APPRECIATE ONE ANOTHER?
Daily, always, frequently and constantly appreciate one another as you grow and progress in your love relationship whether in public or alone by yourselves. Make out time to relax and enjoy one another, learn or remember to profess your love for each other and occasionally present surprise gifts for additional fun.
These much should suffice for the time being while you get to reconsider all that have been shared already and set to make corrections or adjustments where necessary in order to build a healthy relationship that will not only prove rewarding, enjoyable, romantic but in addition one that will last a very long time indeed starting from now.