Saying or promising that it is possible to end a relationship without getting hurt is almost impossible because it is a matter of hearts, emotions and getting involved with one another in an affectionate and special way.
However, it is equally possible to end a relationship and not feel any hurt or remorse especially where both of you have been playing a hide and seek game, and there is a display of insincere love, faked affections and gross misconduct and great deception among others.
This is simply a case of good riddance to bad rubbish or what many who occasioned your relationship can refer to as a caricature of an affair.
In any love relationship or affair between the opposite sexes especially boyfriend-girlfriend types or the more promising ones that is believed to result in a long time thing, ending it for any reason whatsoever is sure to get you hurt.
One encouraging fact is that this kind of hurt would be one that you can accommodate and handle no matter how discomforting it might prove at the initial stage. 3 reasons that could cause a relationship or love affair to end abruptly include:
1. Health issues especially type that has to do with blood grouping and birthing sickle cell children in marriage.
2. Parental consent is another factor where there is a pathological dislike for your choice of a life partner.
3. Loss of interest which results in burn out and becoming exasperated in your relationship.
Presented below are tips on how you can end a relationship without getting hurt:
1. Involve your partner, lover, boyfriend or girlfriend. Let it be by mutual consent between the two of you.
You agreed to start and become involved in your relationship together, jointly share and try to make the other party see the need or reason why you both need to end your relationship.
2. Handle your separation responsibly, in a matured way, and as friends. This way, you can speak well of one another when friends or well wishers ask about your partner or lover and of course, your relationship.
Learn to protect and defend each other even when your relationship has ended and you are set to move on with your life.
3. Be clear as to the reason you wanted to end your relationship. Let it be a clear, understandable and justifiable reason or excuse. Do not leave your partner or lover hanging or groping in the dark for answers or excuses.
Do not say or do anything that will put a doubt or question on his/her self worth. When sharing, move straight to your point(s) especially when you want an OUT of your present relationship on your own.
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