If only you and/or your Ex boyfriend, girlfriend, lover or Spouse will pick up the challenge to work at making your relationship a dynamic, resourceful, rewarding, romantic and result oriented one that will stay a long lasting one, the time for realising your dreams, hopes, aspirations, goals and ambitions in life might continue to be in the future. This is food for thought.
Until such a time that you fully grasp the knowledge and understanding that your relationship requires the committed work, dedication, trust, love and application of your potentials and personal abilities 24/7 you might consider it a part of the statistics figure when relationship breakup is discussed or shared today.
How do you save your relationship from the breakup experienced, make up with your Ex girlfriend, boyfriend or Spouse and reunite to work in a committed way as a team to make your relationship a blissful one?
1. Begin all over again as friends. This is the basics and the start point to any relationship so you must return back to this place where you first discovered love and affection for one another.
2. On your own, do a personal search on how well you understand what a relationship is all about. Any dark or grey areas identified should be cleared up with correct, appropriate and timely information.
3. How well do you understand your partner, lover or ex’s personality? How best do you complement each other?
4. While your relationship lasted, did you at any time share what your expectations are together with each other at all or were you simply preoccupied with ‘I miss you’, ‘I love you’, let’s go to the movies’, ‘it’s been some time you took me out on a date’, ‘you did not remember my birthday’ stuff while leaving the serious and important matters unattended to or discussed?
5. How best are you committed to working at your relationship so as to ensure that it stays dynamic, grows and blossoms, yields results, is enjoyable and helps the two of you grow deeply in love and appreciation for one another?
6. Do you even take out the time or make conscious effort to compliment each other’s efforts, commend and appreciate one another, say ‘thank you’, ‘well done’, ‘may I help out’ or get to spring a pleasant surprise by buying your Ex a small present or gift?
Learn from the tips offered and the thought provoking questions asked. Approach your Ex girlfriend, ex boyfriend, ex lover or Spouse today and find ways to resolve your differences together. Apologise if you are the one caught in the wrong and receive forgiveness.
The two of you need to go back to the drawing board, consult your blueprints, make the necessary corrections or needful adjustments, mend broken fences, team up and work to make your relationship a stable, healthy, enjoyable and romantic.
Any relationship that is resourceful, truly rewarding and mutually beneficial is one that both partners are at work in a committed way and are also making efforts to invest positively and wisely in it- You too can achieve this today if you join forces with your spouse and get started right away rather than wait for another relationship breakup to happen.