Until such a time that you get to understand that what you decide to do or choose not to do has a way of impacting your relationship either for good or for evil, you might consider your relationship as being part of the statistics figure when relationships that experience breakup, separation or divorce is considered.
It takes a sensitive heart, a clear mind and an unbroken focus to keep a relationship on the right path so that it does not only remain dynamic and resourceful, both of you that are involved in it will always find it romantic, fun, interesting, rewarding and result oriented.
Why enter into a relationship for just what you can gain or get, or take from your relationship without sparing any thought or consideration for what you have and can bring in to the relationship to share with your lover, partner, boyfriend, spouse, girlfriend or an ex and enrich it more?
The fact that either you or your partner messed up which is making you experience relationship breakup is a clear pointer that both of you took your relationship for granted at some point.
When you enter into a love relationship with the opposite sex, you must understand that it is an equal partnership and joint responsibility which both of you must work in a committed way to keep, grow and maintain by making positive investments at all times.
Understand that RESPONSIBILITY is simply a merger of two terms or words which are RESPONSE and ABILITY. As such, when you do not allow any good or anything that will prove beneficial to your relationship to take place whether it is coming from you or from your girlfriend, boyfriend, partner, lover or spouse you have only succeeded in doing your relationship a disservice.
When you do not respond to the abilities and potentials present in your unique personalities you have only sentenced your relationship to an untimely death. As such, you will continue to experience relationship breakup unless you have a change of heart, share and discuss together, and also agree to do the needful starting from today to make your relationship a viable and satisfying one.
Now, several factors can cause any love relationship between the opposite sexes to breakup such as;
1. Clash of personalities,
2. Growing Selfish,
3. Starvation (hoarding resources needed for the growth and wellbeing of your relationship).
4. Absent Lover or Passive Partner, etc
What are you to do when any, most or all of these are true of you today?
1. Begin all over again from the basics as friends.
2. Ask or search for and understand what a relationship is all about- Guiding Rules, Benefits to be enjoyed and the Challenges posed.
3. Reappraise your individual personalities and strike a balance by complementing your partner and every concerted effort made to invest positively and creatively.
4. Understand one another better by sharing and discussing together what your expectations are in regards to your love relationship.
5. Be committed to work at building your relationship and making it one both of you will find promising, romantic, resourceful and rewarding, and where your life’s goals can be achieved one after the other.
The two of you need to go back to your drawing board and consult your blueprints, mend broken fences and in unity team up at making your love relationship a stable, viable, healthy, enjoyable, romantic and rewarding one that will last a very long time to come.
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Amazing Love Secrets